It's not hard to find sugar babies on sugar baby dating sites, but how do you tell if she is really into you?Today we're going to help helpless sugar daddies like you, and here's a question for a single sugar daddy from sugar baby dating website.
My name is John and I am 45 years old. I'm not good at starting sugar relationships because I find it hard to tell if sugar babies are interested in me. Sometimes I think sugar babies are flirting with me, but I'm afraid they're just being friendly. How do I know? Can you help me solve this mystery?
The answer to that question
Hi, as a sugar daddy dating counselor for many years, I can totally help. Don't worry. Here are some simple and straightforward things you can learn about how sugar babies tend to be attractive. But I can't completely solve this mystery for you, because it's an unsolved mystery, because humans are complicated. Given that women are human beings, they express their interests with varying degrees of performance and transparency. And, even worse, interest is fluid -- someone may be interested in having sex one week, but may find you unattractive the next. It sounds annoying, but it's true. Human emotions are fickle.
It sounds like being single is a crazy psychological minefield with no way out. But in fact, there are some clever ways to deal with the complexity of the situation. Even if you admit that there's no way to be 100% sure who likes you, you can still have a solid dating life, and I'll show you how. Let's start with the basics -- let's talk about some of the more reliable signs of attraction.
First, you should know that the surest sign a person is attracted to you is that they tend to be late for important appointments. Of course, I mean when she's with you, she puts off other dates. Maybe when you're immersed in a conversation, they really have to leave, they really need to go somewhere, maybe for a yellow fever shot -- but they're always sucked back, reluctant to end their time with you. Essentially, they want to cancel all their plans and talk to you forever. This is a good sign that they want to cancel all their plans to stay with you completely.
Laughter is also a very, very good sign. As we know, when you are attracted to someone, everything she says and does becomes more interesting. When you love someone, even their most prosaic words can prove their charm. You're excited about the drugs they give your brain, and excited people tend to laugh out loud. Accordingly, if everything you say makes a sugar baby giggle, funny or not, she may be signaling that she's interested, which is common sense.
Eye contact is also a great sign. If you find a sugar baby looking at you often, you have a good reason to talk to her. If she doesn't break your eye contact while you're building a relationship and the two of you are staring at each other, talk to her right away. Stand up, walk over, say hello. Is it complicated? Not at all! Look at the following example: Katie and Marcia.
Katie is a young sugar baby who always complains that sugar daddies don't ask her out. She's also super cute and doesn't shy away from showing off her amazing figure. On the face of it, there's no reason to ask her out without a sugar daddy. Katie's problem, however, is that her demeanor is more simplified than icy. Whether she was talking to friends or family, she was in the same slightly amused mood. It's hard to tell if she's excited about anything. There are a lot of sugar daddies in her life and she wants to sleep, and she goes out with a lot of people, but she doesn't give any signals that make them feel welcome, so she doesn't get any sugar daddies on dates.
In fact, there are a lot of women in the world who are awkward and don't know how to show interest, or who are completely expressionless and don't seem interested in anything because of their personality. It's hard for a woman like this to attract a man, and she won't understand unless she has the same personality.
And a small group of women like Marcia, they are positive. The moment you speak to her, she looks at you with warm eyes and assures you with every element of her body language that you are the only person she CARES about. She doesn't gossip: she wants to know what's going on inside you, and in return, she's willing to tell you the contents of her soul. After sitting with her for half an hour, you feel like you've finally met someone who really knows you. Marcia's problem was that men always fell in love with her, mistaking her kindness and charm for sexual interest. No wonder: she was basically confusing them as much as she could, giving each person a attention that seemed so personal. But she couldn't help it. For her, it was just her personality.
That's the difference between the two kinds of women. These two women are by no means typical, but their stories underscore the fact that even the most basic and reliable cues can lead you astray. Given this, the only rational way to determine whether someone is attracted to you is, well, to find out. If you really want to know if someone likes you, you can't guess the answer based on social cues, you can't live without that knowledge, ask them if they'd like to hang out with you. It's not difficult. Ask her if she'd like a drink. She either said yes or said she was busy. When she is busy, she either suggests another time, which means she is interested, or she will give up the topic, which means she is not interested. Then, if she agrees to go out with you, jot down her phone number and don't text her before the date unless you make sure you're at the right time and place. It's that simple.
To be honest, if you've found a sugar baby and know how to tell if she is into you or not, all you have to do now is follow my advice. If she doesn't like you, walk away. If you find out she likes you, start a romantic date with your sugar baby! You shouldn't miss the chance to seek arrangement with the right sugar baby!Read Other Blogs